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Whiteness in the gay community is everywhere, from what we see, what we experience, and more importantly, what we desire. The power of whiteness, of course, derives from appearing to be nothing in particular (Lipsitz, 1998). That is, whiteness is powerful precisely because it is everywhere but nowhere in particular. When we see whiteness, we process it as if it doesn’t exist or that its existence is simply natural. We don’t see it precisely because we see it constantly. It blends into the background and then becomes erased from scrutiny. And this whiteness is imposed from both outside and inside of the gay community.

“They Don’t Want To Cruise Your Type:
Gay Men of Color and the Racial
Politics of Exclusion”  by Chong-suk Han (via uncensoredsupplement)

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Do not tolerate, from yourself or others, jokes that make fun of anyone for anything that is harmful or out of their control. Ever. Period. Full stop. Not racist jokes, not sexist jokes, not homophobic or transphobic jokes, not jokes that make fun of people who have physical or mental disabilities or illnesses. Practice this now, and practice it deliberately. You should have a sense of humour, but this is NOT a sense of humour. Don’t do it. Ever. It’s never okay.

The dean of my law school who is a fucking BAMF (via actualcanadianfemmesherlock)

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On Tammy Baldwin And ENDA

freedominwickedness:

There’s a ton of misinformation going around Tumblr on this, so I’m going to post some actual facts on the situation before I go to bed.

Tammy Baldwin was one of 184 cosponsors of H.R. 2015, the trans-inclusive version of ENDA which was put before Congress in 2007. Unfortunately, Barney Frank — the bill’s originating sponsor — unilaterally withdrew H.R. 2015 from consideration and replaced it with H.R. 3685, a “gays only” version of ENDA. Frank argued that cutting trans rights out of ENDA was politically necessary because trans rights were an extremist position which would endanger moderate Democrats in swing states, whereas gay rights were “politically realistic”.

Tammy Baldwin not only refused to cosponsor H.R. 3685, but threw Frank’s betrayal of trans people in his face by introducing an amendment which would have reintroduced trans rights to ENDA while it was on the House floor, effectively reversing Frank’s replacement of H.R. 2015 with H.R. 3685. Barney Frank killed Baldwin’s amendment by cashing in favors with Democratic Party leaders, who told Baldwin that they would only let her introduce the floor amendment if she agreed to withdraw it before an actual vote was called. This way she would get ten minutes of floor debate time to make a public case for trans rights, but they would not under any circumstances permit a vote on the amendment.

It is neither accurate nor fair to call Tammy Baldwin a transphobe for not being powerful enough to single-handedly secure trans inclusion in ENDA against the entire fucking establishment of the Democratic Party. She stuck her neck way, way out to go to bat for trans people over ENDA, and that was an extremely courageous thing to do considering that she was a relative nobody in Congress explicitly going toe-to-toe with one of the most powerful men in Washington.


Edit: Here’s more details, including direct citations, for those who insist on “skepticism”. Funny how none of those people were “skeptical” of badmouthing a woman in the first place…

This is the THOMAS page for H.R. 2015, the trans-inclusive version of ENDA with 178 cosponsors including Tammy Baldwin. If you look at the dates in the cosponsor list, you’ll notice that Baldwin is one of the “plank owner” cosponsors; her date of cosponsorship is 4/24/2007, the same day the bill was introduced.

This is the THOMAS page for H.R. 3685, the “gays only” version of ENDA with just 9 cosponsors not including Tammy Baldwin. If you look under the “Amendments” link on H.R. 3685, there are three amendments listed H.AMDT.884 (A003) is Tammy Baldwin’s amendment reintroducing trans rights to the bill. As you can see from the Status notes on that page, the Baldwin amendment was withdrawn without a vote precisely eleven minutes after it was introduced for consideration on the House floor.

If you’re unfamiliar with the formal procedures of the House of Representatives, there’s something called the Five-Minute Rule: when the House is meeting as the Committee of the Whole (i.e. the entire House as opposed to a single subcommittee), debate on any new floor amendment is automatically limited to ten minutes: five minutes by the proponent of the amendment, and five minutes by an opponent of the amendment. In practice, this rule can be sidestepped by other Congresspeople proposing nominal amendments to the amendment — the usual phrasing is “striking the last word” or “striking the requisite number of words” — and then yielding (i.e. officially transferring) the five minutes that their nominal amendment entitles them to over to the original proponent. Alternatively, the speaker’s five minutes can be extended by unanimous consent. Both of these extending maneuvers require support from the party leadership, and Tammy Baldwin didn’t have it.

The absolute most Baldwin could have done beyond what she actually did would have been to refuse to withdraw the bill and demand a formal vote on it, which would have been a futile gesture, and would have basically gotten her locked out by her own party in all future discussions. She was already going against the party line set by Barney in bringing the amendment at all, and without backup from other Congresspeople she was swinging in the wind.

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rufflebutts:

sometimes do you just feel like when people say lgbt they think it’s an actual word like elgeebeetee and it comes from the latin for gay white cis man

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Resources on being an ALLY

eelchoy:

[Comic: 1. A young short-haired brown-skinned API woman recoils, flop-sweating, from a white bearded punk guy in a “fuck tha police” shirt who says, “You’re TRANS? You’re so brave… you got a cock or a pussy?” 2. The young woman lifts her skirt, to reveal a giant serpent which bites off the head of the punk guy.]

The above is for people who are functionally blind, which I don’t tend to do but I wanna get in the habit of so my stuff is more accessible.

Materials: Gray markers on vellum, ink and Hunt 22 nib on tracing paper, Photoshop.

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knowhomo:

LBGTQ* Children’s (Picture) Books To Keep On Your Radar

  1. Oh The Things Mommies Do! What Can Be Better Than Having Two? written by Crystal Tompkins; illustrations by  Lindsey Evans   (follow their tumblr HERE)
  2. The Boy Who Cried Fabulous written by Leslea Newman; illustrated by Peter Ferguson
  3. My Mommy Is A Boy written by Jason Martinez; illustrated by Karen Winchester (*book discussing gender)
  4. My Two Super Dads written by Bronny Falls and Munsta Vincent  
  5. Pugdog written by Andrea U’Ren (*book discussing gender)
  6. The Baby Kangaroo Treasure Hunt, A  gay parenting story written by Carmen Martinez Jover; illustrated by Rosemary Martinez 
  7. My Princess Boy written by Cheryl Kilodavis ; illustrations by Suzanne DeSimone (*book discussing gender)
  8. Arwen and Her Two Daddies written by Jarko De Witte van Leeuwen (Translated from Dutch)  
  9. Fairy Tales of the 21st Century written by Bill Carey (retelling of Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella)
  10. My Uncle’s Wedding written by Eric Ross; illustrations by Tracy K. Green 

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Is it just me or...

  • People on the noticeable increase of gay kids coming out: This is so exciting!! I'm so glad that kids have the courage to come out now when they felt they couldn't before, and at such young ages too! That's so great!
  • People on the noticeable increase of trans* kids coming out: What the fuck is up with all these fakers?
  • That's how they react to bi kids coming out too.
  • Yup! That's exactly how people reacted when I came out as bi in high school (I now identify as pan.) And then I hear things like "trans* is trendy just like bi was a few years ago" and I'm just like "oh okay I get it, nobody actually means LGBT when they say it..."

How to be a girl:

dobbaaa:

  • Identify as a girl.
  • That’s it.
  • That’s the post.
  • Everybody leave.

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fyodorpavlov:

Brainy is the new sexy.: Show Your Support for Marvel & DC’s LGBT characters and community!

cryptoscience:

starkexpos:

Hi Tumblr comics fans,

Let’s accomplish some social good today. The organization One Million Moms, who describe themselves as “a network of Christian mothers and grandmothers taking a stand for our children who are exploited by the entertainment industry”, have recently released…

Boooost for heroes we can relate to.

Fuck this homophobic noise!

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special-k-art:

queerbois:

::QB Submission::

Thanks for submitting your photo. Keep them coming. :-)

“Can I get a taste?”

http://strokeofbrilliance.tumblr.com

I may have just got the vapors

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queerbois:

::Style::

There are so many layers and textures to this outfit. QB approved/supported and encouraged!

modhero:

People who kiss me get super powers!

Available at http://www.zazzle.com/geeksout

Proceeds to benefit Geeks OUT

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delisubthefemmecub:

STORY TIME.  About a year after I first started identifying as trans and asking for “he” pronouns I started having a crisis.  I had been embodying a pretty normative masculinity, mostly because I felt like that was what I had to do to make myself legible to people.  And because I felt like it was my own fault if other people read my gender wrong.

But I am not normatively masculine.  I am a very very feminine man.  I am a queen, I am a drag queen, I am a fem/me, I am genderfluid, I am a gender non-conforming man.  And I now know that it is never my fault when other people assume my gender.

In 2009 I had what I like to call my first ~femme crisis~.  I moved through my every day life presenting in normatively masculine ways.  But inside, my glorious queen soul was getting no sunlight, no love, no water and it was slowly wilting and dying. 

I would only dress up femme-y in private for my boo, and it felt so liberating.  But some days I felt like if I didn’t go out into the world dressed femmey, if I didn’t stop conforming to what other people thought a man was “supposed to look like”, that I was going to absolutely break down.  I would have gender meltdowns all the time and I just felt terrible.  It seemed like this normative masculinity was collapsing on top of me.

I used to tell my boo about this gorgeous red dress in the window of a plus-size boutique off of MacArthur.  I eyed it for weeks and weeks every morning on the bus ride to school.  I desperately wanted it, but I felt like such a failure of a man for all of my secret desperate queeny desires. 

That year on Valentine’s day she handed my a small gift bag.  I had no idea what it could be, but as soon as I slipped my hand between the tissue paper and felt the silky smooth fabric I knew exactly what it was.  I tugged on one of the halter straps and slowly pulled the dress out of the bag.  It unfolded and bloomed like a big red poppy and I just burst into an ocean of tears right there in her tiny little dorm room. 

In that silent exchange between me and my partner I knew that, for the first time in my life, someone really truly understood my gender.  I knew that she would still call me her boyfriend in this dress.  I know that she would never push me, but always support me, in exploring the ways that I need to express my gender in order to feel liberated, to feel safe, to feel honest.  I knew that she really deeply truly loved every fiber of my being. 

And most of all, I knew i was going to be okay.

(that’s me in the dress on the right, and my friend Tabs on the left)

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queerinnature:

Andrea Gibson - I’ve Got a Body/You’ve Got a Body (Ukelele Song)

This is so absolutely wonderful. <3